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People who feel inadequate gravitate toward those they feel at parity with or 'beneath' themselves. They feel more 'comfortable' around these people because they don't feel threatened by them. They avoid those whom they perceive are 'above' them. In the company of those people they compete for posture in the relationship.


However, the fact of the matter is that this feeling of inadequacy is really an illusion. It is one of those false beliefs that people adopt for themselves that becomes their own limiting 'reality'. They fail to see or accept there own competency, even in the face of their celebrated achievements.


Solution? The first self help book says that "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he." Positive self talk and affirmations are a good start at breaking down negative and debilitating thinking that leads to destructive actions that set up in our lives and become habits.


A second step is to believe and accept the positive feedback given by others. Sometimes people are so down on themselves that it becomes difficult for them to feel up.


The bottom line is everyone is unique. We have to bring our unique talents, skills and abilities to the table of life for the mutual benefit of us all.


We all need each other to contribute our best!


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