Sunday, December 21, 2014

Overtime


On November 3, 2013, at about 1 PM I was on my way to watch the Saints game. I would never make it. Instead, I ended up in the ER and then emergency quadruple heart bypass surgery. What should have been the end of the game for me had become overtime.

From that moment, each moment since then has become borrowed time in the game of life. The value of time is something I have become acutely aware of. But then, we all already know that. 

The challenge becomes guiding ourselves or allowing ourselves to be guided to situations in our lives that give us true meaning. True meaning is a measure of value and that value is the measure of our contribution to others. 

So as I reflect on winning this game in OT, I am going to rally my team to gain a victory by making the score beneficial to the service of another.

Here's the snap.......


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Monday, August 25, 2014

Violations

Three inches would be considered thick for a Bible, that contains instructions for every aspect in life. God sees and knows all that we do, at any given moment. When we violate the laws policies and procedures of the Bible one is accountable to one person, who happens to be perfect. This fact affords one some consolation that the penalty being rendered for any violation is in fact just.

The regulations which govern a New Orleans Police Officer, when bound, are nearly five inches thick and pertain only to a small segment of that officer's life. The activities of today's officer are watched, monitored and recorded live nearly every moment they are at work. When he or she violates the laws policies and procedures of the police department the officer is at the mercy of the subjective interpretation of a group of imperfect people who, more than likely, are out of touch with the realities faced by that officer on a daily basis.

These imperfect people replay, review and question the violation of these officers and shall render judgements that affect a person's livelihood and that of their family. Oftentimes, these judgments come without the benefit of truly understanding the officer's perspective. Nor do these judgements always appreciate and avail themselves to the value of retraining to focus the officer's attention to their error. An error which, more than likely, was done due to the myriad of things one has to remember and be accountable for from that five inch thick publication they are governed by.

Regulations, policies and procedures are a necessary safeguard to proper operation and also serve to standardize the services provided to the public. But those who are charged to administer those services should see them as a guide that will assist them in doing their jobs and not just as a punitive tool whose main purpose is to chastise them, punish them and beat them down.

Violations are opportunities to do things over and get it right. When taken full advantage of, the violation becomes that 'teachable moment' that benefits everyone. No mature person minds correction that benefits them. It takes good leadership to seize these opportunities and treat them in a way that makes a better officer and ultimately a better organization.

I am reminded of what my FTO told me about traffic enforcement: "The goal of the traffic encounter is to make a better driver."

Enough said.


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Saturday, July 12, 2014

Heart Trouble

It has been said of some people that they died from a 'broken heart'. I don't think it is either a stretch of science or the imagination to see there is a link between the mind, soul and body. Spiritual and emotional issues, unresolved, do manifest themselves in the physical body. The scriptures even attest to this fact: 1 Corinthians 11:28-30.

As for me, I have had a physical heart problem for a number of years. It has bewildered me as to why, because I maintained a reasonably healthy lifestyle. But as I think of the spiritual and emotional aspects, I can see why my heart has become so afflicted.

No one has wanted the love I have to offer, no one wants to give me the love I truly need. I don't ask for much and I don't think that's too much to ask for. But it has turned out to be way too much and way too scary for anyone to give. It is very much disheartening. I am disappointed. I am disenchanted. I am tired. I quit.

My heart aches from the damage of being stepped on and abused. This emotional condition has now manifested itself physically, once again.

How can a body survive when its soul is starving? Is there life in a body with a dying spirit? Can one truly exist without love?

Just once in this life I would like to be truly loved. I would like for someone to love me as much as I love them.

Is that really too much to ask for?

True love is the most positive healing force in the universe! Does anyone have that kind of love for me?


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Monday, June 30, 2014

Hold On

Sometimes the love you need walks right into your life at a time when you don't recognize it, or worse, don't even want it.

But if you are blessed enough to have found true love, just hold on to it. Even if you don't know what to do with it right now, don't let true love go. Do whatever it takes to understand true love and figure it out.

So if you know it's right, hold on! If you know it's real, hold on! If they treat you the way you're supposed to be treated, hold on! If they make you feel happy, hold on! If, when you are with them, everything seems just alright, then hold on! If they give you the drive and desire to be a better person, then hold on! If they bring positive motivation and influence into your life, hold on! Just hold on, with all your might and strength.

Because if you let go of true love, love may not come back into your life ever again.


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Tuesday, June 3, 2014

Thanking You

Hi,

I had no idea it would take so long, but my rehab is done and I have returned to work, albeit in a limited capacity to start. Today was my first day back at work. I am totally exhausted even though I did absolutely nothing!

It is difficult to express in words the amount of gratitude I have for the prayers, positive thoughts, emotional and material support I have received during my recuperation from surgery. The support was tangible in every respect as even the prayers could literally be felt.

Of course, praise and thanks be to our Lord Jesus. In His wisdom all things are ordained and have meaning, according to His purpose. I know God has a grander purpose in all of this beyond just a physical ailment and I intend to grow and walk in it!

Out of fear of leaving someone out, I won't go through the long list of those I am grateful to and blessed to have had in my life at this time. The contributions you all made, whether 'large' or 'small' were all monumental in meaning to me. From the gifts of the things I needed to the timely touch on the hand when I was in the hospital, it all came when I needed it most. I am forever grateful to my friends, family, extended family, Blue family, hospital staff and others.

But there are two I would like to publicly call out and acknowledge:

First, my mother, Annie B. Crawford. What can be said of a mother's love? Certainly it is the second most powerful force in the universe! Its depth can not be measured and its end has never been seen. It is a high office and those women in it, who dutifully perform its calling are deserving of much praise and honor!

My mother is such a woman. I had absolutely no worries for myself under her care. My only concern was being careful not to let her do 'too much' and tire herself out. I am forever grateful to be the recipient of so great of love and am blessed to have been given to her as a son.

Secondly, my sister, Rosalind Jones-Francis. Y'all she really stepped up for me! She reached down into areas of compassion, I did not know she had, and pulled out a whole truck load of love for her little brother. She brought me what I needed, inconvenience herself to take me to my appointments and rehab. And she made sure to kiss me and tell me she loved me everyday. She is a real champion to me. I appreciate her more now than I ever have.

I am not fully recovered, but have come a very long way and will continue to progress. The physically hard part of official rehabbing has passed. Now the wherewithal to continue it on my own, in order to maintain my recovery, has begun.

Oh, I appreciate your patience and understanding with enduring my incessant texting and posting during these past eight months, but writing is therapy for me. I hope, at least, the poetry was enjoyable because I plan to kick that off again.

But please, when you pray, ask God to keep me mindful of His purpose. You know how we forget about Him when things get back to 'normal'.

Thanks!

Sincerely,
Edward W. Johnson, Jr.

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Friday, May 23, 2014

Women

While we want our women to be productive, proficient and as self-actualized as they can be; we still need women who want to be ladies and mothers.

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Saturday, May 3, 2014

DON'T YOU THINK IT'S TIME TO MAKE A CHANGE?

If you keep working and never getting ahead, it does not matter how long you do it or how much effort you put into it, you will never be successful.

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Monday, March 31, 2014

Sailing

When one is kicked off a 'ship of fools' one need not feel ashamed. When one is the captain of said ship one does not have anything to brag about.

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Sunday, March 30, 2014

Incident

It seems that the only place nations from all over can get along is at a food festival. I hope there is not an international incident in my stomach later!

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Friday, March 28, 2014

Enough

Be patient enough to turn ideals into reality. Be impatient enough not to settle for any thing less.

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Wednesday, March 26, 2014

Provisions

If children are to fail in life. It should not be because they were not given every opportunity and provided every resource they would have needed to succeed.

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Friday, March 21, 2014

Things

Small things become major issues in small minds.

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Thursday, March 20, 2014

Construction

As you build a relationship, you might find that perfect balance is probably impossible to maintain. But if you find you always show up with a dump truck full of lovin' and they always come with a shovel, you might want to consider moving to another construction site.

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Monday, March 17, 2014

Pay It

Saw a guy pay it forward. He got off of his bike to remove debris from the roadway a car had run over.

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Sunday, March 16, 2014

Burdens

Never discount a person because of the 'baggage' they might carry. Buy a cart. Load theirs on board, then load your own. Now walk together and fellowship with each other.

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Friday, March 14, 2014

Family Time

There comes a time in boot camp when recruits began to gel. The barracks becomes 'home' and the strangers you live with become 'family'.

It is at this point drill and cadence become crisper, uniforms become sharper and bearing becomes focused.

It was during this time that a young white guy from Iowa made the following confession to his newly found black brothers. He said that all his life he had been brought up to hate black people, but had never actually spent any time with any black person before. And he summed up his conclusion with a simple phrase, "But you know, y'all alright!"

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Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Comfort

The comfort of our comfort zones gives us the illusion of safety, happiness, security and prosperity. But in reality, all we may have is just comfort. Sometimes, in order to truly achieve these objectives we must leave our familiar comfort and exchange it, for a time, for discomfort and uncertainty. This requires a willingness to change preceeded by an astute ability to assess reality accurately.

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Sunday, March 2, 2014

Direction

Pessimism and optimism both part from reality, albeit in opposite directions.

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Friday, February 14, 2014

Happy Valentine

If the love you give is real, then it should take something out of you. If the love you receive is real, then it should fill you up again.

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Sunday, February 9, 2014

Struggle

Our struggle is a losing battle. We are mistrusted by those we are sworn to protect and serve and we are equally maligned and misguided by those who were chosen to 'lead' us.

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Friday, January 24, 2014

Some

Some people don't know how, and don't, while others do know how, and just won't.

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Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Dying

Dying is not the problem. It is unavoidable. What is problematic is choosing not to really live.

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Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Peace

Tread lightly upon the earth, harming nothing and leaving peace in your wake.

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Sunday, January 19, 2014

Accidents

'Accidents' are merely the result of a series of controllable events that proceed them which, one by one, got out of control.


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Saturday, January 18, 2014

Happiness

Sometimes happiness comes disassembled and must be put together with the bolts of pain, the nuts of turmoil and the glue of afflictions.

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Thursday, January 16, 2014

Bang

If the universe was the result if a 'Big Bang', then it was God who lit the fuse.


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Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Unspoken

Let not your love go unspoken. Waiting could mean the loss of opportunity that may never come again.


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Monday, January 13, 2014

Parenting

There is no such thing as 'single parenting'! Real parenting involves moms, dads, aunts, uncles, grandpa and granny, close friends and even neighbors. Parenting is not a DIY operation!

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Sunday, January 12, 2014

Tranquilizers

Some people are tranquilizers and some people need tranquilizers.


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Complaint

After years of careful observation, I have concluded that people LOVE to complain. I mean, they can take the most benign situation and...oh, wait a minute...


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Saturday, January 11, 2014

Wrong

The wrong woman will challenge you and compete with you. Anything but cooperate with you.

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Friday, January 10, 2014

Books

Survey Says...If you were about to evacuate a sinking ship in order to go to a deserted island and could only tear three books from the Bible to take with you, which three would it be?

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Thursday, January 9, 2014

Senility

Senility is a cruel comfort. Your perception of its presence is exceeded only by your ignorance of its debilitating effects. Its only grace is that it allows you to be blissfully unaware.


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Thursday, January 2, 2014

Decisions

Everyone has to make decisions to get through life. We can either deliberately make them or life will force us to.


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